On May 11, 1865,
Tod R. Caldwell wrote this letter to J. P. H Russ, W. R. Richardson "and
others":
Gentlemen: Your polite and kind invitation to attend and address a
public meeting of the citizens of Wake County, proposed to be held this day in
the City of Raleigh for the purpose of giving expression to our feelings on the
occasion of our restoration to the Union and to the protection of the flag of
our common county, has been received, and I must cordially thank you for the
compliment. I deeply regret, however, my inability to be present, as I am
compelled to hasten to my home in the west on important business which cannot
be postponed. I shall nevertheless be present with you in sentiment and in
sympathy and no one of the many spectators who will attend the meeting will
hail with more delight that I do, the advent of peace and the deliverance of
our people from the iron rule of tyranny and oppression. Let us all, then, with
one accord, as good and loyal citizens, respect, and reverence, the glorious
stars and stripes which are emblazoned upon our country's banner.
Let us cherish it as our benefactor and
deliverer from a worse than Egyptian bondage, and as a protector from insult
and injury, both at home and abroad; let us return to our peaceful avocations
determined to cultivate feelings of amity and brother's love toward the people
of all sections of our country-to stand to and faithfully abide by the Union,
the Constitution and the laws; and to stamp forever with the seal of our
disapprobation, the miserable hearsay of secession, which has been the prolific
source of so much distress and suffering to a once happy and prosperous
people.
While Caldwell might have kept a low profile in
the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains during the war years, the war came to
his home as well. Caldwell had a son, John, who pleaded with his father for
permission to join the army. Tod Caldwell finally consented, and John Caldwell
enlisted in Company E, 33rd North Carolina Troops, on May 3, 1863. The younger
Caldwell was just eighteen years old. He would serve a little less than two
months in the Confederate army.
North Carolina Monument, Gettysburg. |
There are two stories regarding his death at
Gettysburg. One takes place on the afternoon of July 2 on a picket line near
Long Lane, or out in front of it. The other account has Caldwell dying on July
3 as Lane's brigade neared the Emmittsburg Road. There were several newspaper
accounts of the death of John Caldwell published after the war. In one of those
accounts, when the Governor was told of the events of the death of his son,
"the Governor locked himself in his room and was all day in tears. He
never told his wife" of the details "and told it only to his private
secretary."
So as Caldwell sat in Raleigh, getting ready to
head back to Burke County for "important business," he too well
understood the "distress and suffering" of the war. His own family had
been split, and his son, just 18 years old, was killed in the heat of battle in
distant Pennsylvania.